It’s Friday as I write this and my stomach doesn’t feel great. Which isn’t fantastic on a day when I’m supposed to be cooking. I figured it was just a ‘not hungry’ sort of thing, but it’s mid-afternoon and the tummy still feels a bit uneasy. Not full-on sick, mind you, but if I’m not careful I could easily tip that way.
Oh and hey, you know ‘refrigerator’ is a really hard word to spell?
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On Fridging
Are we all familiar with the idea of fridging? No? Okay, well it’s that thing that happens sometimes in a story where a supporting character, usually a female love interest is violently killed in order to further the development of the main character. After all, how do we get the hero fully invested in stopping the bad guys? By killing his love interest of course! I’ve seen some argument as to whether or not in even counts as fridging if the case in question isn’t a female character, but for the sake of this essay I’ll say it doesn’t have to be a female character, though for the most part it usually is.
The term ‘fridging’ (which is itself short for ‘stuffed into the fridge’) derives its name for DC Comics. There came a Green Lantern comic in which Kyle Rayner’s girlfriend Alexandra is murdered and her body is stuffed into the fridge for the hero to find. Gail Simone popularized the term and compiled a website (titled, appropriately enough, “Women in Refrigerators”) listing examples. Because as it turned out, there were a lot of examples in comic books of male superheroes who have violence thrown on top of their love interests to give them more character development or to further the plot.
And that’s… not great.
I’m not saying that you can’t kill characters, or even that a dead love interest or family member or friend shouldn’t ever be in the story in one way or another. But there are quite a lot of characters who exist almost solely to be fridged, or else are killed off with little ceremony in order to move things forward. It’s bad enough when you kill off side characters who have little to no personality; it’s worse when they’re meant to be important to our main character and we have little impression of them.
Part of the reason this is on my mind is because I just started a book series, and two books in this has already happened twice, where the protagonist’s love interest is killed by enemy forces, and both times it happens off-page, meaning that their death wasn’t even worth the effort of writing a proper scene for it. The author sort of walks it back a bit at the end of the second book by revealing that one of the fridged characters isn’t actually dead, but it’s still a bit frustrating that we’ve led to believe that two of the main character’s lovers were killed off-page and we’re meant to be emotional about this.
There was a recent-ish interview with the writer who was running Spider-Man back in the days when Gwen Stacy was killed off (and also made Punisher???), and he admitted that he’s not proud of how it became a thing in comics to kill the love interest, and that his reasoning was to show that the status quo wouldn’t always stay the same and that heroes weren’t immune to tragedy. And I get that, I don’t think it’s necessarily bad to kill off the love interest. And not having read that storyline for myself, I can’t make a full judgment on it for myself. But I think it’s a disservice to characters, and the audience, when they’re killed off for the sole purpose of making the hero hurt. And even if you feel like you can justify it with the setting, or the tone of the story or something like that, you still can’t get away with doing it twice in one series.
How do we lessen the problems of fridging? Or at the very least, make them less egregious? Some thoughts:
-Make sure the character getting killed in question is actually a fully-developed character. If the character exists solely for the emotional impact she/he is going to have on the protagonist when killed, then that’s not a fully-developed character. Give them backstory, motivations, and maybe even a subplot.
-If it’s someone important to the main character, death should happen on-page/screen.
-Do not frame this character solely as a victim. That doesn’t mean that they weren’t a victim of violence, but that can’t be the only way the audience is meant to see the character. Is this character being killed solely for being connected to the protagonist? And if so, are they given at least a fighting chance of survival?
-Don’t relish too much in the violence of it. That doesn’t mean character death should be pleasant, or that it can’t be gruesome, but it’s one thing to have a character killed with slit throat and it’s another to go on for paragraphs at a time about all the blood everywhere.
-If you can’t think of anything else to do with this character, and killing off this character for the sake of moving forward character development is the only thing option you have… then you need to think of something better, because that’s just cheap writing.
An example of a female character getting killed off that I don’t think is really a fridging? Moira Queen in Arrow. She dies in the show’s second season, and this affects the protagonist greatly; she is his mother, after all. But she exists as a fully-developed character before her death occurs. And when she’s held at gunpoint by the villain of the season, and Oliver is told he has to choose which of these two characters (Moira and Thea, Ollie’s sister) has to die, Moira Queen stands up and says (paraphrasing here), “Screw it! I’m not playing this game. If you’re going to kill someone, kill me, but I protect my family no matter what.” And Slade’s like, “Okay then,” and kills her.
Yes, she’s killed off, and it drives the protagonist even harder to fight against the villain. But she dies because it’s the result of a choice that’s entirely consistent with her ongoing character arc. She doesn’t have to die; there’s more that can be done with her character. She’s not killed because there’s nothing else for her to do. She’s killed because that is the way the story is going based on the choices these characters make, especially Moira herself. So I don’t think it should count as a fridging.
Maybe that’s a thin line, and maybe I’m wrong. But if I am, it’s at least better, isn’t it? If you feel you must kill a character for drama, especially a female family member or love interest, don’t make it into something that’s just there to shock the audience or galvanize the protagonist into action. And for the sake of all that’s holy, don’t do it the exact same way twice in one story, and off-page to boot.
Don’t treat your characters like crap.
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